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Suggest Methods To Increase Sexual Drive
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I have a personal problem, when I am having intercourse with my partner, I become dry quite quickly, i am very attracted to my partner and it is starting to get me down, is there anything I can take, like creams etc to help improve without him knowing?
Anon
I have a personal problem, when I am having intercourse with my partner, I become dry quite quickly, i am very attracted to my partner and it is starting to get me down, is there anything I can take, like creams etc to help improve without him knowing?
Anon
Tue, 20 Sep 2016
Hallow Dear,
There are arginine containing lubricant creams which might help you delay the sex-play.
In fact in early phase of sexual life, early orgasm is known due to hyper excitement. As the time passes, you can go on having prolonged intercourse. Even some modifications in the style of coitus may help you delay ejaculation:
1. Do not spend much time in body play before penile insertion; particularly avoid handling of the penis.
2. Avoid dry handling of the genital organs. Women feel very uncomfortable with dry touch to the genital organs and do not have good secretions then.
3. Use water based lubrication. Oil based lubrication creams are harmful to the woman's genital organs. Vaginal jellies available with the chemists are good for this purpose.
4. Woman should demand insertion when she is fully wet and excited. After insertion, have a gap for some time with full concentration of sexual pleasure and erotic thoughts. Then subsequently, the movements may be started.
5. Even after having a clitoral orgasm, penis need not be withdrawn; if penis still remains in the vagina for some more time, women do get another orgasm by pressure on G point in the vagina. This is called as vaginal orgasm when again woman starts secreting and becomes wet.
Please get examined from a Gynaecologist to rue out any vaginal infection. Vaginal infections cause discharge, however, women feel very dry and uncomfortable during insertion and intercourse.
I hope this will help you.
Dr. Nishikant Shrotri
There are arginine containing lubricant creams which might help you delay the sex-play.
In fact in early phase of sexual life, early orgasm is known due to hyper excitement. As the time passes, you can go on having prolonged intercourse. Even some modifications in the style of coitus may help you delay ejaculation:
1. Do not spend much time in body play before penile insertion; particularly avoid handling of the penis.
2. Avoid dry handling of the genital organs. Women feel very uncomfortable with dry touch to the genital organs and do not have good secretions then.
3. Use water based lubrication. Oil based lubrication creams are harmful to the woman's genital organs. Vaginal jellies available with the chemists are good for this purpose.
4. Woman should demand insertion when she is fully wet and excited. After insertion, have a gap for some time with full concentration of sexual pleasure and erotic thoughts. Then subsequently, the movements may be started.
5. Even after having a clitoral orgasm, penis need not be withdrawn; if penis still remains in the vagina for some more time, women do get another orgasm by pressure on G point in the vagina. This is called as vaginal orgasm when again woman starts secreting and becomes wet.
Please get examined from a Gynaecologist to rue out any vaginal infection. Vaginal infections cause discharge, however, women feel very dry and uncomfortable during insertion and intercourse.
I hope this will help you.
Dr. Nishikant Shrotri
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Hi
Dr. Purushottam welcomes you to HCM virtual clinic!
Thanks for consulting at my virtual clinic. I have carefully gone through your query, and I think I have understood your concern. I will try to address your medical concerns and would suggest you the best of the available treatment options.
1.First of all do not panic.
2. i will suggest you be stress free at the time of sex act.
Indulge in foreplay for some more time than before.
Use of lubrication like K-Y jelly is helpful.
Even human saliva is a good lubricant.
3.Please keep private parts dry and clean.
Use of Lactic acid vaginal wash at bath time will be of help.
Doing Kegel's exercises will improve the condition.
I hope this answer was helpful to you!
Thanks.
Dr. Purushottam
Dr. Purushottam welcomes you to HCM virtual clinic!
Thanks for consulting at my virtual clinic. I have carefully gone through your query, and I think I have understood your concern. I will try to address your medical concerns and would suggest you the best of the available treatment options.
1.First of all do not panic.
2. i will suggest you be stress free at the time of sex act.
Indulge in foreplay for some more time than before.
Use of lubrication like K-Y jelly is helpful.
Even human saliva is a good lubricant.
3.Please keep private parts dry and clean.
Use of Lactic acid vaginal wash at bath time will be of help.
Doing Kegel's exercises will improve the condition.
I hope this answer was helpful to you!
Thanks.
Dr. Purushottam
I find this answer helpful
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