Rahul Sanon: Hi,I am 51. Have diminished the desire to have sex with my wife, though she want's. I love my wife.This has happened over last 4-5 years. Feel lethargic when I go to bed. Presently I stay in Mumbai and go home once in 15 days. I do masturbate 2-3 times a week and get an erection while masturbation, while having sex with my wife I failed to have a complete erection last time aroung 3/4 months back. Please suggest some medicine for improving my sex life. I have slightly high BP and take Seloken XL 25 regularly. Also is it safe to take Revital with such BP. 
Doctor: hi 
Doctor: dis is doc suma 
Doctor: how can i help u 
Doctor: letv me go through your query 
Rahul Sanon: Please reply to my query. In case you have any other question pl let me know. 
Doctor: Ok Just give me a minute 
Doctor: SInce you have good erection during masturbation it might not be an organic reason for lack of proper erection 
Doctor: Lack of regular sex and not in company with your wife are the two probable reason I could think of 
Doctor: Also SELOKEN can cause Erectile problems 
Rahul Sanon: I am in Mumbai for past one year only before that I was with my family and same situation existed. 
Doctor: as the Beta Blockers ( anti hypertensition ) medcines can cause such side effects 
Doctor: So these are the three important reason I could see for lack of proper erection in your case 
Doctor: Do you get proper orgasm during sex? 
Rahul Sanon: I used to get it earlier. Not had much sex during last 4/5 years except masturbation. When I have orgasm. 
Doctor: At this age past 50 yrs, one needs constant stimulation from the partner to engage in proper and completed sexual activity 
Doctor: Since you are staying away from your partner that stimulation is not in your case 
Doctor: Being close to your wife is one solution] 
Doctor: Do you smoke / take alcohol? 
Rahul Sanon: Are there any safe medicines to improve this. 
Rahul Sanon: No I am a teetotaller 
Doctor: If it is an organic cause, definitely shall improve 
Doctor: since there is psychological reason 
Doctor: only counselling and couple therapy helps 
Rahul Sanon: WE both want to have sex. But when ever I go to bed I feel lethargic and want to avoid sex. 
Doctor: You both of you can meet a sexologist and avail a couple therapy\ 
Rahul Sanon: Can Revital be take. It gives me extra enery when taken 
Rahul Sanon: Any other safe medicines/ gels 
Doctor: Revital can be taken 
Doctor: No problem 
Doctor: You should not take any medicines or gels since you are hypertensives 
Doctor: Some medicines are unsafe to be taken without Doctor's prescription and physical examination 
Rahul Sanon: Can you prescribe some medicine based on the discussion. 
Doctor:  WWW.WWWW.WW 
Doctor: I cannot prescribe you medicine with out examining you 
Doctor: As told by me, medicines may not help you 
Doctor: completely 
Doctor: You can seek an opinion from our panel of Sexologist 
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