hello I have two difrent questions first I need to know what would cause a mans part to curve drasticleyrather fast ? my husband has always had lower back pain when we have sex and in a matter of less then a year he had a small lump on the under side of his stuff as it got bigger he began to curve upword and now is very bad he sayes it don t hurt when we have sex yet we have t n two years he tries to say that it is from trama when he was younger he raced bikes and hit himself a time or two he also said that it is partly my falt because I like to get a little ruf , between them two things he is messed up and notihng can be done for it I think it is not that simpel and that he needs to be seen the sex was NEVER that ruf Not in my mind ther eare other things that I think needs to be conciderd because just befor this started he had what looked like pulp in his urin and it was very cloudy. he will not even talk about it and he knows how importat it is to me what else could it be or can I give you more info