Suggest Remedy For Red Bumps And Swelling Near Urethral Opening And Vagina

since june 2010 which was the first time i had sex, i have had a rash on my labia minora and perineum ive two different doctors that gave me cream it helped with itching but rash never left finally it had stop bothering me and cleared up one dr said it wasnt contagious...recently i had sex (same guy) and it flared up again i have a white discharge no odor watery.there is also red bumps by my urethral opening and also surrounding my vagina on my labia minora its swollen also