Hello, my husband is next to me in agony. His tooth is almost all gone and we're pretty sure its rotting down to the nerve. Its swollen, hot, throbbing and the only thing that seems to help for a slight second is the cold. Water, ice, ice cream, etc. He's taken idk how many ibuprofen 800s and is allergic to clove oil.we don't have insurance and its ten at night and he wont go to the emergency room. Is there anythin I can do at home for him??? Until we get to the dentist pleasseeee