Hi..
Welcome to HEALTHCARE MAGIC..
I have gone through your query and can understand your concerns..
As per your complain pain in the anal area after anal sex along with bleeding on bowel evacuation and pain seems to be pointing towards Anal Fissures, that occurs due to tear in the specialized mucosa of the
anal canal known as Anoderm..
I would therefore suggest you to consult an Anorectal surgeon or a
Proctologist and get evaluated as the exact cause of the fissure needs to be ruled out and treated accordingly to prevent further increase in symptoms and treatment of cause can relieve..
He can investigate clinically as well he can advise you Anoscopy confirm the cause.
You can be advised to apply topical anaesthetics like Lignocaine gel..
Calcium channel blocker containing
ointments like Diltizem can be advised as it will dilate the blood vessels in the area and improve blood flow that will initiate healing..
You can be advised to take stool softeners like Docusate and increase fibre intake that will also smoothen the stool like
Psyllium and methylcellulose..
You can also do Sitz bath by sitting in a tub of warm water 2 to 3 times a day especially after bowels..
You can also take painkillers like
Ibuprofen if there is pain..
In case of no resolution
surgical treatment can be advised..
Hope this information helps..
Thanks and regards.
Dr.Honey Nandwani Arora.