Suggest Treatment For Anxiety And Anger Disorder

my x became increasing abuasive to me it started verbal then ended up with him going to jill but, the effects 4 and half years have on me is painful. he would call me all the nastiest names when he could not get his way, felt and acted as if I owed him the world and I was my own reason for him abusing me. would go from I love you to F2=9 you B*%*% if the slightest thing ANGERED HIM. I felt like nothing I did made him happy, if he didn t get the exact name brand or style for a gift , he act like its okay then flip out accusing me of not knowing of loving him or else I would buy the right things like he does (which isn t always the truth.. I just never say anything) what could I have done to make it work? he kept yelling after court while I was crying because I never wanted to see him in that position that I put him in jail when he indeed ran out the house and started punching me in the head before I could get out the car and in my house