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Suggest Treatment For Bipolar Disorder In A Person Who Is Sensitive To Loud Noises

Hello. My daughter-in-law has no one to assist her with normal mother-daughter guidance. She and my son have been married for nearly a year. She was diagnosed with bipolar disorder but also has an unusual medical diagnosis of pseudocyst cerebri (not sure if I m giving the correct diagnosis) which she claims renders her incapable of coping with loud noise, stress and extreme headaches. She has been consistently taking to her bedroom, lying in bed and once her 8 year old daughter returns from school, her daughter fends for herself. There is no help with school work. Mother screams at the daughter, sends her to her room when she is too loud and feeds her McDonalds foods. the child appears to have an attention deficit because she cannot concentrate for any length of time on any project, gives up and often is destructive. I simply have lost my patience with this and fear I cannot intervene. My son, because he doesn t believe he has the right to discipline or admonish this young stepdaughter, refuses to do anything. It is horrible. The other day mother actually bleached this child s hair and she is now platinum. What can I do?
Thu, 20 Apr 2023
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Hi,

It sounds like a difficult situation for everyone involved. It is important to address mental health issues and behavioral problems to create a healthy and safe environment for the child. Here are some steps that may be helpful:
- Encourage your daughter-in-law to continue with her treatment for bipolar disorder. It may be helpful for her to work with a therapist or psychiatrist to manage her symptoms and improve her coping skills.
- Suggest that she speak with her doctor about her sensitivity to loud noises and headaches. There may be medication or other treatments that can help manage these symptoms.
- Offer to help with the care of the child, whether it be helping with homework, providing healthy meals, or spending time with her. This can help to alleviate some of the stress on your daughter-in-law and provide a more stable and nurturing environment for the child.
- Have an open and honest conversation with your son about the situation. It may be helpful to encourage him to seek therapy or counseling to help him navigate his role as a step-parent and address any underlying issues that may be contributing to his reluctance to intervene.

If you suspect that the child is being neglected or abused, it is important to report it to the appropriate authorities. This may include child protective services or law enforcement. It is important to approach the situation with empathy and understanding, while also advocating for the well-being of the child.

Take care. Hope I have answered your question. Let me know if I can assist you further.

Regards,
Dr. Priyanka, General & Family Physician
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Suggest Treatment For Bipolar Disorder In A Person Who Is Sensitive To Loud Noises

Hi, It sounds like a difficult situation for everyone involved. It is important to address mental health issues and behavioral problems to create a healthy and safe environment for the child. Here are some steps that may be helpful: - Encourage your daughter-in-law to continue with her treatment for bipolar disorder. It may be helpful for her to work with a therapist or psychiatrist to manage her symptoms and improve her coping skills. - Suggest that she speak with her doctor about her sensitivity to loud noises and headaches. There may be medication or other treatments that can help manage these symptoms. - Offer to help with the care of the child, whether it be helping with homework, providing healthy meals, or spending time with her. This can help to alleviate some of the stress on your daughter-in-law and provide a more stable and nurturing environment for the child. - Have an open and honest conversation with your son about the situation. It may be helpful to encourage him to seek therapy or counseling to help him navigate his role as a step-parent and address any underlying issues that may be contributing to his reluctance to intervene. If you suspect that the child is being neglected or abused, it is important to report it to the appropriate authorities. This may include child protective services or law enforcement. It is important to approach the situation with empathy and understanding, while also advocating for the well-being of the child. Take care. Hope I have answered your question. Let me know if I can assist you further. Regards, Dr. Priyanka, General & Family Physician