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Suggest Treatment For Episodes Of Increased Libido
My name is Arslan Ahmed. I live in Lahore, Pakistan. I am a 28 years old male. I am 6ft 0 inch tall and weigh 82.5 kg(s). I workout (strength training for about 30 mins minimum) every other day and consider myself an athletic person. I am currently engaged to a 24 year old girl but we don’t have any physical contact with each other, we only chat on skype. As she is studying right now and I am away busy in my job, we weren’t able to get married last year as planned. I am a virgin and currently I am sexually inactive. I can go without thinking about sex for weeks but when my libido level rises it’s a different story. I usually masturbate 3~4 times a day when these levels go up. These episodes carry on for two to three days at a time. I can’t control myself and sometimes I think that I have been possessed. I usually blame myself and keep away from my fiancé during this period. I think as though I have betrayed her in some way. Every fortnight I have a wet dream, that’s frustrating for me because during this period I am either horny or loathing sex. I usually don’t socialize with people when I have these episodes and the frequency of these episodes is usually after 1.5~2 months.
All the problems you are having is due to the association of guilt with sex and restraining yourself. You are young and naturally, the hormones are high at this age. Henceforth, you should indulge in safe and loving sex with your partner frequently and you will find all these episodes subsiding, having wet dreams is also a normal phenomenon.
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Suggest Treatment For Episodes Of Increased Libido
Hello, All the problems you are having is due to the association of guilt with sex and restraining yourself. You are young and naturally, the hormones are high at this age. Henceforth, you should indulge in safe and loving sex with your partner frequently and you will find all these episodes subsiding, having wet dreams is also a normal phenomenon. Hope I have answered your query. Let me know if I can assist you further. Regards, Dr. Sagar Mudgal, Psychiatrist