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Erectile dysfunction (ED) or
impotence is
sexual dysfunction characterized by the inability to develop or maintain an erection of the penis during sexual activity.
There are many causes like
Drugs (anti-depressants (SSRIs) and nicotine are most common)
Neurogenic disorders
Cavernosal disorders (Peyronie's disease)
Psychological causes: performance anxiety, stress, and mental disorders
Surgery
Aging. It is four times more common in men aged in their 60s than those in their 40s.[11]
Kidney failure
Diseases such as
diabetes mellitus and multiple sclerosis (MS).
Lifestyle: smoking is a key cause of erectile dysfunction. Smoking causes impotence because it promotes arterial narrowing.
Your problem seems to be pure psychological. I suggest you to
consult a psychologist first.
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