Hi,
I have read your description and understand your concern. First thing what you need to understand is that you are not suffering from
erectile dysfunction. It happens to many after marriage that they wouldn't get proper erection during sexual activities. All you need is reassurance and do the things as suggested below. This is more of psychological problem than physical one. You need to develop self confidence to overcome this.
Kindly practice 'behavioural therapy' in the form of pause and squeeze technique regularly. Also, perform
pelvic floor muscle strengthening exercises along with it. Include in your diet dry fruits, honey, milk, papaya and banana, which will help to improve blood circulation to the penis aiding proper erection.
You can apply
local anaesthetic sprays on the penis to decrease the sensation and sustain good erection. You can take medication Tablet.
Tadalafil half-an hour minutes before intercourse, when necessary. Keep your mind calm and healthy free from anxiety and stress by doing
meditation and regular physical workouts. Gradually, you should be able to overcome the problem and perform better.
Hope the information provided would be helpful. Let me know if I can assist you further. All the best.
Regards,
Dr. Ashakiran S