Hi, may I answer your health queries right now ? Please type your query here...okay,here's my question. I'm 44 and a little bit over weight, workin' on that problem. My question is this, I've tried two ED type drugs and honestly nothing seems to help. I'm not hard when I am erect, and not sure hwat else to do. I've never been what you would call hard to the point where it hurts. Is there something wrong?