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Suggest Treatment For Lack Of Erection In Penis

hi,i am 40 years old and am using Lavitra for the last 2 years when ever i plan to have sex with my wife , and i do it on weekly bases .the reason why am using lavitra is that am afraid that my penis get soft or not becoming hard when i have sex with my wife.last night i wanted to have sex with my wife , but my penis became soft when the intercourse happened , what shall i do to get my penis hard without lavitra
Mon, 5 Dec 2016
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Dear user,
Thanks for contacting Healthcaremagic.
I have gone through your question and understand your concerns regarding insufficient erection.
Lavitra (Verdenafil) is used to treat male erection problems.
The erectile failure due to situational factors, fatigue, tension or own ''pressure to 'perform' rather to enjoy'' is very common. This seems in your case.
This causes you constantly focusing on your performance (Being afraid of penis getting soft) and not in enjoying the sex.
For constant erection, continuous exciting/romantic/erotic feelings should be there in your mind. If your mind is diverted to concern about erection, you will lose erection.
You simply enjoy and only enjoy, without focusing on your 'performance' or quality of erection during masturbation or sexual intercourse. Practice this regularly at each sexual activity. Lavitra may help you temporarily but it is not a permanent solution.
Relax and think positively. Your problem is temporary and you will surely come out of it.
You can consult your psychiatrist / sexologist for counseling.
Warm regards.
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Suggest Treatment For Lack Of Erection In Penis

Dear user, Thanks for contacting Healthcaremagic. I have gone through your question and understand your concerns regarding insufficient erection. Lavitra (Verdenafil) is used to treat male erection problems. The erectile failure due to situational factors, fatigue, tension or own pressure to perform rather to enjoy is very common. This seems in your case. This causes you constantly focusing on your performance (Being afraid of penis getting soft) and not in enjoying the sex. For constant erection, continuous exciting/romantic/erotic feelings should be there in your mind. If your mind is diverted to concern about erection, you will lose erection. You simply enjoy and only enjoy, without focusing on your performance or quality of erection during masturbation or sexual intercourse. Practice this regularly at each sexual activity. Lavitra may help you temporarily but it is not a permanent solution. Relax and think positively. Your problem is temporary and you will surely come out of it. You can consult your psychiatrist / sexologist for counseling. Warm regards.