Hi, A couple of days ago i had anal sex for the first time. Everything was fine until the next morning i found a lump on the outside of my anus. Ive bought Anusol cream, put ice packs on it, hot baths, witch hazel but it hasnt changed. I got it Friday morning and its now Sunday morning. Its not pain, just abit uncomfortable. Its the size of a large pea. Its making me quite upset and feel ugly with it. Please help!.