Hi, welcome to HCM. Thanks for asking your query at this forum.
We understand your concern. I have read your question carefully and understood it. I will try my best to answer it.
I can understand you suffering. The problem you are facing appears to be a common
sexual disorder called
premature ejaculation. Premature ejaculation at your age is commonly due to
anxiety.
You are harbouring a believe that due to
masturbation (hand practice) you have lost your sexual power. But it is a wrong belief. Masturbation is considered a safe and effective way of relieving sexual urge, and it does not cause any weakness in body or mind. Then the question arises why are you suffering from this problem. I will answer this in detail.
In our culture we know that masturbation is a condemned act. In our
unconscious mind we do not want to indulge in this condemned act, but due to intense sexual urge we do it. After committing this act a guilt develops and person determines to not to do it again. But again after some time he indulge in this act. This cycle goes on. Later on the person starts worrying about its ill effects and this worry and anxiety causes different kinds of sexual dysfunctions like poor erection and premature ejaculation. Then the person attributes this sexual problem to his practice of masturbation.This is happening with you.
Actually masturbation is not causing any problem. Good medicines are available for curing anxiety and premature ejaculation. You may need to visit a
psychiatrist personally for detailed evaluation and prescription of medicines. Taking medicines from quacks and 'hakims' is wastage of money.
I hope it answers your query. I wish you all the best.