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I have gone through your query and can understand your concern.
Most cases of
premature ejaculation do not have a physical cause & have psychological factors such as
anxiety, guilt,etc.The same is with your husband. May be he doesn't want be a father now, so he is scared sex will get you pregnant. In that case you could use
contraceptive methods.
With sexual experience and age, men often learn to delay ejaculation.. Following steps can be done in premature ejaculation
1.Practicing
relaxation techniques or distraction methods during sex may help him delay ejaculation.
2.Counseling or
behavioral therapy may help reduce anxiety,guilt related to premature ejaculation. Also ensure him that nothing wrong is with sex. Viewing of pornography may also be helpful
3.There are also creams, gels, and sprays that may be used to treat premature ejaculation by reducing sensation.These medicines are applied to the penis before sex. condoms with pre-applied gels are also available in market.
Visit a doctor , if problem persist.
Don't worry much
Hope this information helps.