Hello Josh,
Welcome to health care magic.
I am Dr Alok Sinha, MD Psychiatry from India. I can understand your concern. I will try my best to answer your query.
This is called
premature ejaculation. At your age the main reason of
sexual dysfunction is
anxiety. The anxiety is generated in mind due to various reasons like lack of privacy during sex, little time, having fear of being caught, pressure of performance etc.
There are two types of system in body which plays important role in sexual activity. These are
1. Parasympathetic system:- This system is active during mental peace and rest. If our mind is relaxed it is full of parasympathetic drive. Parasympathetic drive is responsible for erection of penis and prolonging the sexual act by delaying the ejaculation.
2. Sympathetic system:- This system is active when mind is restless, alert, fearful, in anger etc. It is responsible for ejaculation.
Because of anxiety our sympathetic system is at upper hand which causes premature ejaculation. After ejaculation it takes a period of time to get parasympathetic system an upper hand and thus erection is possible only after some time.
There are few good psychotropic drugs which can allay anxiety and also delay the ejaculation. I advise you to
consult a psychiatrist who may assess you in detail and prescribe medicines.
I hope it answers your question. I wish you all the best.