Hello S R Rajesh,
Thanks for using healthcaremagic.
You are quite young fellow and married having a son.And you told that you are suffering from premature ejaculation(PME) since 9 years.So first note that when someone ejaculate so early that before female partner get orgasm, it is called premature ejaculation.
I guess you did not have take any treatment yet.
There are two types of treatment.
One is non medicinal approach.There are two methods called, "Stop and squeeze technique" and "Master and Johnson technique" can be learnt from qualified sexologist/
psychologist.But these methods required couple counseling so you should
consult doctor with your wife.
Another option is medicines like
clomipramine which can be taken daily or sometime on required basis after doctor's consultation.Another medicine is
paroxetine.So better to consult doctor for best option.
About Side effects:
Clomipramine: as dose required is 10-25 mg which is not going to cause any major side effects if tolerated well.
Paroxetine: may cause some headache ,giddiness or
nausea but overall it is also good tolerated.Go to doctor , start the medicines after discussion. It will help you for sure.
Sorry for tamil language. But I have tried to answer in simple English which I hope you will understand.
Hope I have answered your query, if still any confusion late me know.
Regards, Dr. Chintan Solanki