Hi.
I've gone through your query. I can understand your 
anxiety. 
Your symptoms are due to 
Chronic Constipation or Faecal 
Impaction . I advice you to follow this, 
1. High dietary fibre intake : Oatmeal porridge, Chapatis, brown bread with butter, honey or fruits such as prunes, dates,figs,mangoes,apricots,Green vegetables. 
2. Drink 10 glasses of water in a day.
3. As you have tried suppository, better to go ahead with plain water enema 
4. Rule out disorders like 
hypothyroidism, 
irritable bowel syndrome etc 
5. Also laxopeg sachet can be given 
6.if not responding, rectal enema can be tried 
Hope I have answered your query. Let me know if I can assist you further. Get well soon. 
Regards, 
Dr. Yogapriya V, General and family physician.