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With my children gone from needing me anymore, I feel so isolated and just live in memories of when they were here....they don t call me, I am expected to call them.....am I expecting too much from them and should I just go about my later years by myself with other people?
I went through your details. I can understand your emotions. Don't you think children are always like that? Are you not aware that every children, like you when you reached adulthood, will change for the better future? You must have did the same thing. Your parents must also had such complaints as you are worrying now. That is life, friend, we are here to adjust with it.
Our children are supposed to get matured, get a job, settle, live a peaceful life etc. When they find green pastures, they go there. Most of the time, they are not aware about that fact. Now it becomes our duty to bless them and pray god to keep them happy always. Along with that we should also find some activities which keeps us busy and keeps us from thinking about them.
But I still think "your children do need you". They will come back to the lovable parent. I am sure. Take care.
If you require more of my help in this aspect, please use this URL. http://goo.gl/aYW2pR. Make sure that you include every minute details possible.
Hope this answers your query. Available for further clarifications. Good luck.
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Dear Welcome to HCM We understand your concerns I went through your details. I can understand your emotions. Don t you think children are always like that? Are you not aware that every children, like you when you reached adulthood, will change for the better future? You must have did the same thing. Your parents must also had such complaints as you are worrying now. That is life, friend, we are here to adjust with it. Our children are supposed to get matured, get a job, settle, live a peaceful life etc. When they find green pastures, they go there. Most of the time, they are not aware about that fact. Now it becomes our duty to bless them and pray god to keep them happy always. Along with that we should also find some activities which keeps us busy and keeps us from thinking about them. But I still think your children do need you . They will come back to the lovable parent. I am sure. Take care. If you require more of my help in this aspect, please use this URL. http://goo.gl/aYW2pR. Make sure that you include every minute details possible. Hope this answers your query. Available for further clarifications. Good luck.