Hi and thank you so much for this query. I am so sorry to hear about these side effects. They are real and when they become unbearable, trying out other methods of contraception is advised. Beside pills, there are other temporary methods of birth control like intrauterine device, injections, implants etc. The best thing t do is to talk with your doctor so that he can evaluate and recommend an alternative method to you. I hope you find this helpful and informative. If you have more questions, please contact me and i shall provide more answers. Congrats for taking control of your sexual and reproductive life. I wish you and your entire family well. Dr. Ditah, MD