Washing Hands After Urination. Does It Carry Any Bacteria Or Infection?

hi, my husband and I are arguing about a hygiene question (and putting our relationship on the line). he really thinks i need to see an infectious disease specialist and i just think he is wrong (and insane :)) besides the fact that I have a 4 month year old baby at home, my husband and i fight about hygiene all the time. Yesterday, he proceeded to use the bathroom in our home. He first washed his hands thoroughly, then realized he had to urinate, proceeded to urinate and then washed his hands for-no joke-3 seconds with, I believe, just water. Am i just OCD or do i need to see a doctor? My real question is whether or not (besides being good hygiene in my eyes) does the fact that someone who pre washes and then proceeds to not really thoroughly wash after urination have any harm or potential for bacteria/infections or anything? he claims he didnt touch anything and he urinates sitting down so he was not holdiong onto his penis when he urinated. Im still concerned. although my bathroom is clean, its still a bathroom. please advise. thanks.