I am 51 year old female exhibiting all the signs and symptoms that are part of both pregnancy and menopause, including a menstrual cycle that came to an abrupt stop more than 2 months ago, mood swings, weight gain, etc. I am also type 2 diabetic, thalicimic, and being treated with methotrexate for severe Rheumatoid Arthritis. I have had 3 previous conceptions and live births and am ready to accept and deal with menopause. What are the chances that i am actually pregnant, and how do I find a doctor that would help me abort under these circumstances, with my husbands agreement and full support?