This question isn t for me it s move of a third person view but here is a onsite of it but I don t know what to do or what. My brother is over weight and has diabetes. About a month ago he took him self to the hospital and he said in the hospital that he was going to change his ways as he doesn t exercise, eats poor food for him, drink energy drinks which he shouldn t and he sleeps on the sofa even though his wife says he souls go to bed and there s a big argument why he should or shouldn t. He isn t in hospital now and he has went to his old ways. From a brother point of view this hurts me so much to see him this way; I can t imagine how much it hurts for her... I seriously don t know what to do its a serious consern for my side and the wife s side of the family we need help by questions like why every night when we wake him up he gets angry and starts arguing? And what we could do to help him? It puts us all down to see him like this.