Hello
I share your concern.
I have gone through your question very diligently and I really appreciate your concern.
Repeatedly urge to defecation might be related to incomplete evacuation of bowel,
irritable bowel syndrome, parasite infection or may be associated with stress anxiety.
I would advise you to take
Chlordiazepoxide group of drugs for 7-10 days with
pantoprazole or ranitidine group of drugs.
you should take lots of fresh fruits and vegetables with
dietary fiber supplement in your diet.
Try to avoid stress and anxiety by relaxation exercises yoga and meditation.
Have plenty of fluids and maintain good hygiene.
if it doesn't help than you should go for stool test for ova, cyst or protozoa, you may require deworming with
albendazole group of drugs.
Hope I could answer your question please feel free to ask for follow up question I will be happy to help you.
wishing you good health.