hello. I am a 39 year old female. I had to undergo a hysterectomy two years ago. I have not taken any hormone replacement meds b/c had a bad experience with them, so I'm pretty much going cold turkey with the hot flashes and night sweats...don't reccommend that. But, I have noticed that my sexual drive has declined a lot, is there anything I could do, b/c my husband is really starting to get frustrated? And question number two: I really have lost weight in my butt and I don't know how or why, is there anything I can do or take to get my butt back?