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i had sex with my girlfriend and i found that my penis is not getting up even on seeing her naked..... but before i was able to have full erection and even masturbated looking blue films .... and even now im able to do it (not as before) .... so wat can be the reason ..im really worried about this ...pls help and is ther any permenant solution for this ???? pls help me
Hi, thank you for using health care magic. I can understand your concern. If you have spontaneous morning erections then you do not need to worry at all, as physically you are fine. Many times there are isolated incident of loss of erection occurs in men's life. this occurs usally with new partner or being under stress . Lack of intensity in sexual activity, lack of foreplay also causes poor erection. One should not be worried about this isolated erection loss because this will lead to extra pressure in next sexual activity. One should be try to relax and enjoy the intimacy rather then worrying about his performance, try to get proper arousal in both of you by different means. Sensate focus training is helpful in overcoming erection problem. If this is not helping then consult psychiatrist, he /she will be help you further. Hope this will help you. Regards.
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Hi, thank you for using health care magic. I can understand your concern. If you have spontaneous morning erections then you do not need to worry at all, as physically you are fine. Many times there are isolated incident of loss of erection occurs in men s life. this occurs usally with new partner or being under stress . Lack of intensity in sexual activity, lack of foreplay also causes poor erection. One should not be worried about this isolated erection loss because this will lead to extra pressure in next sexual activity. One should be try to relax and enjoy the intimacy rather then worrying about his performance, try to get proper arousal in both of you by different means. Sensate focus training is helpful in overcoming erection problem. If this is not helping then consult psychiatrist, he /she will be help you further. Hope this will help you. Regards.