My boyfriend broke my hymen 3 days ago, fully I believe, and it bled lots for a while and we didn t notice when it was torn so we carried on, after a while when everything was finished we noticed, it didn t hurt at all but there was lots of blood, now my vagina hurts on the labia, and there is a lot of darkish discharge, and a large white patch just 1cm into the vagina on one side that hurts when applied pressure, is this just the hymen healing or do j have an infection?