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What Causes Lack Of Libido In A Woman?
sorry for my english... hello . i have a wife about 4 years. we dont have sex often. i mean 3 - 4 in a month maybe . i think she doesnt enjoys it . She s telling me that shes enjoying with cunilingus but she never asks for it. i mean she will never be initiator of sex or cunilingus. we have a baby 1.1 years old. she was not enjoyng of sex even from begining. she wants only when i am on TOP . she hurts when she is on top on Kneeling or in other position... i thnk has made abortition before we met. after abortition there happends something and it hurts ? i mean woman always hurts in sex after she made abortition? i just dont know what to do i realy love her byt to live without sex for me is too bad. She doesn t want to go to Gynecologyst i dont know why maybe she afraids i will knew about her abortition . i am not SURE that she made abortition i just think about it . She never cums also. only once she sad that she cum . she really loves me. i have normal Dic* i mean normal size problem is not in me i think because oother girls were enjoying sex with me can u give me any advice?
Tue, 29 Mar 2016
Hello and welcome to HCM,
Lack of sexual desire in a woman can be functional or organic.
In simple words, lack of libido can be due to hormonal imbalance or due to person's preference.
Since, you have a child with your wife, this means that there is no abnormality in genital organs and there is no hormonal abnormality also.
Pain during or after sexual activity is a normal phenomenon and this may not have any relationship with previous relation.
In my opinion, you need to communicate with your wife and discuss with her for the lack in interest in sexual activity.
In case that is not helpful, you may consult a marriage counselor or a sex counselor.
Your wife may have a different preference and this may be a reason for her lack of interest in sexual activity with you.
Professional help may be sought for.
Thanks and take care
Dr Shailja Puri
Lack of sexual desire in a woman can be functional or organic.
In simple words, lack of libido can be due to hormonal imbalance or due to person's preference.
Since, you have a child with your wife, this means that there is no abnormality in genital organs and there is no hormonal abnormality also.
Pain during or after sexual activity is a normal phenomenon and this may not have any relationship with previous relation.
In my opinion, you need to communicate with your wife and discuss with her for the lack in interest in sexual activity.
In case that is not helpful, you may consult a marriage counselor or a sex counselor.
Your wife may have a different preference and this may be a reason for her lack of interest in sexual activity with you.
Professional help may be sought for.
Thanks and take care
Dr Shailja Puri
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