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What Causes Low Esteem,low Confidence And Fear Of Failure?

every thing seems to be useless to me.i am loosing hope and interest in almost all things. i keep just thinking and thinking all the day and night(habitual). i fear to face the world. attended more than 60+ job interviews and was selected in almost 50% of them . but never continued more than a week at workplace. i hate all the existing systems.sometimes i wonder i am from different world and all the things going in this world has nothing to do with me.unable to resolve what should i do in life since last 3 years.i think i have reached a complex situation.what it is? low self esteem,low confidence, fear of failure i can't judge.plz. help
Tue, 27 Jan 2015
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Welcome to HCM
We understand your concerns

I went through your details. From the given symptoms I strongly feel that you are simply being rebel and you do not have any motivation in life. If you don't get two times food, you naturally will do any job you can, just to get enough money to get two times food. So basic needs such as hunger, thirst, shelter, security, clothes etc acts as motivation.

In your case, I think, all those primary and secondary human needs are met with somebody else. You get almost everything from somebody else. That is why your motivation are low. There are no other way except to alter your thinking style and make sure you be positive.

If you require more of my help in this aspect, please use this URL. http://goo.gl/aYW2pR. Make sure that you include every minute details possible.

Hope this answers your query. Available for further clarifications.
Good luck.
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What Causes Low Esteem,low Confidence And Fear Of Failure?

Dear Welcome to HCM We understand your concerns I went through your details. From the given symptoms I strongly feel that you are simply being rebel and you do not have any motivation in life. If you don t get two times food, you naturally will do any job you can, just to get enough money to get two times food. So basic needs such as hunger, thirst, shelter, security, clothes etc acts as motivation. In your case, I think, all those primary and secondary human needs are met with somebody else. You get almost everything from somebody else. That is why your motivation are low. There are no other way except to alter your thinking style and make sure you be positive. If you require more of my help in this aspect, please use this URL. http://goo.gl/aYW2pR. Make sure that you include every minute details possible. Hope this answers your query. Available for further clarifications. Good luck.