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What Causes Obsession Regarding A Girl?
hi sir , I am unable to ferget my feelig regarding a girl , whom i met once officialy as marriage match, but unfortunatly lost her and she ot married with some one else,trying to become busy with one or the other task , But even tough unable to take out her rememberance from my brain,, before bed and early morning as i wakeup her thoughts are around me , how do i forget her,, please guide me
And i am lost interest towards my rotine ,, now am unemploye that's reason i dint reacted to her when her parents made a marriage praposal ,,i know i should'nt think of her now any more,,but still,,,
And i am lost interest towards my rotine ,, now am unemploye that's reason i dint reacted to her when her parents made a marriage praposal ,,i know i should'nt think of her now any more,,but still,,,
Tue, 3 Jun 2014
Hello and welcome to Healthcare Magic. Thanks for your query.
I understand that you are quite distressed about the feelings for a girl you had come across recently. Though it is fairly normal for persons to have emotional attachments / feelings towards someone they like, this becomes a problem if it starts affecting your life and daily routine.
Moreover, it is not rational to keep thinking about her and having feelings for her when you know that she is already married to someone else. So, I would suggest that you go for counselling in order to help you overcome these thoughts and feelings.
Wish you all the best.
Regards,
Dr. Jonas Sundarakumar
Consultant Psychiatrist
I understand that you are quite distressed about the feelings for a girl you had come across recently. Though it is fairly normal for persons to have emotional attachments / feelings towards someone they like, this becomes a problem if it starts affecting your life and daily routine.
Moreover, it is not rational to keep thinking about her and having feelings for her when you know that she is already married to someone else. So, I would suggest that you go for counselling in order to help you overcome these thoughts and feelings.
Wish you all the best.
Regards,
Dr. Jonas Sundarakumar
Consultant Psychiatrist
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