Hello, I have gone through your query and understood the concern. In the current scenario, I would recommend a proper clinical evaluation by a specialist. When consummation occurs, the hymen gets ruptured and this can cause spotting and sometimes bleeding resembling a natural period. Scarring occurs later as healing is done and further intercourse does not cause any bleeding or pain in the usual case. Repeated bleeding is a cause for concern and can happen with a traumatic intercourse when the vagina is small, with infection, polyps etc. Further management can be planned after evaluation. She needs styptics to control the bleeding. The impact of the hormone contraception also should be considered. Hope this helps.