I had what looked like to be a small white hard bump (size of a match stick head) near my clitoris and recently after having sex it looks like it has become inflamed and has gotten bigger now more like a small marble size and is hard, when I squeeze it nothing comes out and when I went to my local doctor she swabbed it for herpes but that came back negative. Now she has told me to leave it alone and see if it will go away but it is very painful and I can tell there is something inside of it what should I do I cant even go to the gym as gym tights make the pain unbearable