3 weeks ago, I went on a date with someone who is STD clean like myself, as we ve been dating... Well, I went down on her and later had sex. I felt fine. In the morning, my entire bottom lip was so swollen & numb that I went to Urgent care where they gave me A steroid shot in my butt and a shot of Benedril in my arm.....No other problems occurred and felt fine for the next 3 weeks until.....Last night...Went on another date, but with another FWB, and we had sex and I also went down on her....only to feel my upper lip this time develop numbness and it too was swollen when I woke up.... After another Urgent care visit, they recommended I see an allergist....I m not allergic to anything and HIGHLY doubt I am allergic to the oral on women.... Do you have any clue to what s going on?