I am a 42 year old male. I am able to get an erection, I feel like I am going to orgasm, but I never do. I can not cum. My testicles are swollen, more on my right than left testicle. They are tender to te touch. I feel like I am going to cum, but the end result never happens. This has been going on for 5-7 days. I have tried heating pad for the swelling, baths, oral and vaginal sex. Thank you for your help. -CBR