Dear Welcome to HCM We understand your concerns I went through your details. I suggest you not to worry much. The condition of your wife may not be requiring a consultation of a psychiatrist. Here you must act as a care taker and mentor. Open talk should be able to reduce the behavior. If there is no respite, she may be taken to a psychological counselor for behavioral counseling / psychotherapist for behavioral therapy. I do not see any sort of psychiatric illness in her. If you require more of my help in this aspect, Please post a direct question to me in this website. Make sure that you include every minute details possible. I shall prescribe the needed psychotherapy techniques which should help you cure your condition further. Hope this answers your query. Available for further clarifications. Good luck.