What Does Redness On The Penis Indicate?

A month ago I had protected sex with a woman who I just met online. The next day I noticed my penis having some redness close to where the urethra is. There wasn t any bumps nor was it itchy. A few days later I started getting a sore throat, coughing, runny nose, and fever and the tip of my urethra was either burning mildly or some weird feeling. I was getting a lot of itching on my genitals and thighs next A week has passed since my sexual encounter and these symptoms are diminishing then I noticed as I was taking a shower there was an open cut in my inner groin which healed a couple days later. Later on the itching and burning sensation on my penis came back for a few days and went away. Then after that I noticed what looked like a wart ok my hand. No pain nor itching nor oozing nor redness whatsoever. Then i was getting some leakage from my pebis, a clear watery liquid which seems to only happen when i had an erection. I also noticed itching and some open cuts where my bum crack is at. It looked liked they were oozing by the look of the pictures that I took. They healed up a few days later. Going into week three I started getting lower back pain, leg pain, burning sensation on my hips whenever I lied down, and some burning on my lips as well as some pain inside my mouth. Right now it s been almost 5 weeks since my encounter and so far I m feeling well again. I looked up online what I might have and it looks like it s most likely herpes but then I had some discharge so it could be gonorrhea or chlamydia. I m not sure what it is but I m planning to get tested soon. Can anyone tell me what it is?