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Dr. Andrew Rynne
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What Is The Treatment For A Painful Intercourse?

Hi Doctor, I am 27 years old and I have problem with my sex life. My boyfriend and I have been more that 5 years together. And currently we start living together and we had not have sex yet. The problem is with me. He really need to have it but I scared to have sex. We have tried many times but i stopped him. I really scared of the pain. When we tried, I feel pain so much. I even tried alcohol and get drunk just to forget the pain. I don't like alcohol but I just started for this purpose and i drink when we want to try. But it doesn't work. I even tried hard alcohols but i didn't get drunk because there is in my mind that i am going to have sex. I even told to my boy friend to use force at least for the first time but he doesn't wanted to hurt me. I really care about him and I am feeling guilty right now because i feel i am killing his sex felling. So please doctor suggest me something to rid of this problem or if there is any medicine that reduce for the pain or any pain killer, please suggest me. i am in big problem.
Wed, 3 Sep 2014
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Hi, thanks fr writing..
I understand your concern..
First time sex is bit painful but it will be alright after few days. Apply a lubricant and insert your index finger into the vagina. Continue this for 5 days followed by 2 fingers for 5 days. When you are comfortable with it, ask your partner to do the same. Initially with 1 finger, then with 2. When you are comfortable with that you can try for intercourse. Foreplay is required to have adequate lubrication. Breath in and out while having sex to keep your fear away. Concentrate on the breathing. You will be fine after a couple of times. Hope I have answered your queries. Good day.
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What Is The Treatment For A Painful Intercourse?

Hi, thanks fr writing.. I understand your concern.. First time sex is bit painful but it will be alright after few days. Apply a lubricant and insert your index finger into the vagina. Continue this for 5 days followed by 2 fingers for 5 days. When you are comfortable with it, ask your partner to do the same. Initially with 1 finger, then with 2. When you are comfortable with that you can try for intercourse. Foreplay is required to have adequate lubrication. Breath in and out while having sex to keep your fear away. Concentrate on the breathing. You will be fine after a couple of times. Hope I have answered your queries. Good day.