Hi, I have gone through your question and understand your concerns. In early months, even up to 1-2 years, of sexual life many women fail to achieve orgasm. Increase the duration of foreplay and if the time of intercourse is too short to induce orgasm, then your husband should also be treated. Too much anxiety also is one of the causes, in that case drugs like Imipramine are often prescribed. For that you can see a local doctor. As you mention your mom s side has this problem you should exclude physical cause, for which you need to do blood tests Hb, TC, DC, fasting sugar, Prolactin, TSH. Hope I have answered your question. If you have any further questions I will be happy to help.