Dear Qadis, Thanks for contacting Healthcaremagic. I have gone through your question and understand your concerns. When you have erotic stimuli (watching, thinking or smelling) the sexual excitement occurs. This causes series of changes in your sexual organs. There are tiny organs and glands (called bulbourethral glands and prostate gland) in the way of urine tube which discharges fluid during such excitement phase. This fluid is little in amount and having smell and mucoid consistency like semen. This is normal thing and having no harm to your body. This fluid is harmless provided one maintains adequate genital hygiene and free of sexually transmitted diseases. I recommend that you should discuss freely with your partner to understand your and her likes and dislikes. You try to understand why she gets irritated by this fluid. What are her beliefs about it and so on? Many people accept oral sex as perfectly natural and a happiness to be shared between two partners. I hope this will help you. Kindly feel free to contact again if you are having follow up questions. Wish you good health.