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What Is The Treatment For Premature Ejaculation?
Hi,
Would like to get some advice on ow to improve sexual intercourse with my actuall partner. It seems I can´t reach orgasms although he does
and in my opinion I think it´s because he may be suffering from Early ejaculation problems as it doesn´t seem to take him more than a few minutes to reach his climax as soon as penetration´s done.
He claims that he can´t really do much as my vagina seems quite dry
and have been trying to talk to him as how we could improve this as we seem to get on quite well together for the rest and I always feels so discomfort after the sexual intercourse. The foreplay´s nice but not long enough to give me the opportunity to reach my climax and because he always misinterprets me when I seem to find some pleasure in the foreplay and thinks I´m ready... so never get a chance to have a clitoris orgasm nor a vaginal lone which I by the way have never had in my life as a married women (now I´ve been divorced for 5 years) and this , to me due to lack of loving techiques by my partners.
My actual one ´s only suggested me to see a specialist althouth he said he could very well be him too... but he doesn´t seem to put any interest in finding the time to read about how this could be improved and as a consequence I feel that the problem is to be solved on my own
which has disappointed me.
I´m 57, and don´t seem to have any problems when I´m on my own.
Where is the problem according to you? ´My partner is 55 and advised me to go for younger partners with whom I would have no problems.
But to me, it´s more a question of being a good lover than a question of age. Am I wrong ?
Thanks for answering
Would like to get some advice on ow to improve sexual intercourse with my actuall partner. It seems I can´t reach orgasms although he does
and in my opinion I think it´s because he may be suffering from Early ejaculation problems as it doesn´t seem to take him more than a few minutes to reach his climax as soon as penetration´s done.
He claims that he can´t really do much as my vagina seems quite dry
and have been trying to talk to him as how we could improve this as we seem to get on quite well together for the rest and I always feels so discomfort after the sexual intercourse. The foreplay´s nice but not long enough to give me the opportunity to reach my climax and because he always misinterprets me when I seem to find some pleasure in the foreplay and thinks I´m ready... so never get a chance to have a clitoris orgasm nor a vaginal lone which I by the way have never had in my life as a married women (now I´ve been divorced for 5 years) and this , to me due to lack of loving techiques by my partners.
My actual one ´s only suggested me to see a specialist althouth he said he could very well be him too... but he doesn´t seem to put any interest in finding the time to read about how this could be improved and as a consequence I feel that the problem is to be solved on my own
which has disappointed me.
I´m 57, and don´t seem to have any problems when I´m on my own.
Where is the problem according to you? ´My partner is 55 and advised me to go for younger partners with whom I would have no problems.
But to me, it´s more a question of being a good lover than a question of age. Am I wrong ?
Thanks for answering
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Thu, 13 Mar 2014
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Hello
Thanks for query .
Based on the facts that you have narrated you are unable to achieve orgasm due to premature ejaculation that your male partner is suffering from .
There are multiple issues involved in not getting orgasm and involves both the partners.
1) Your age 57.as the age advances there is natural for woman to have loss of libido
2) Atrophy of vagina.
3) Reduced vaginal secretions .
4) Premature ejaculation problem of your male partner .
Premature ejaculation is very common problem both of you need to discuss it and can be resolved with mutual cooperation and following following measures
1) Spend more time in foreplay
2) Modify sex techniques like start and stop technique or squeeze technique .
3) Changing sex positions ,Woman on top position will help you to achieve orgasm
4) Your partner should take Dapoxetine and Sildenafil before planned sex.This will help to delay ejaculation.
Dr.Patil.
Thanks for query .
Based on the facts that you have narrated you are unable to achieve orgasm due to premature ejaculation that your male partner is suffering from .
There are multiple issues involved in not getting orgasm and involves both the partners.
1) Your age 57.as the age advances there is natural for woman to have loss of libido
2) Atrophy of vagina.
3) Reduced vaginal secretions .
4) Premature ejaculation problem of your male partner .
Premature ejaculation is very common problem both of you need to discuss it and can be resolved with mutual cooperation and following following measures
1) Spend more time in foreplay
2) Modify sex techniques like start and stop technique or squeeze technique .
3) Changing sex positions ,Woman on top position will help you to achieve orgasm
4) Your partner should take Dapoxetine and Sildenafil before planned sex.This will help to delay ejaculation.
Dr.Patil.
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