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What Is The Treatment For Sadness?

dear sir i have a severe love break up, i am in very bad situation its around 3 years of love, and i am 10 years elder than her i am 28 and she is 18, she is very intelligent i have very close relationship with her, she ditched me for other guy, she is very happy now,
Mon, 21 Apr 2014
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Dear
Welcome to HCM
We understand your concerns

I went through your details. I suggest you not to worry much. If she is happy that she ditched you, then why worry. You find another girl (light sense).

You must understand that every person grieves the situation and almost every person came out of the situation (though sad for sometimes). Here you are sad, dissatisfied because something you wanted did not happen. Fine. Imagine a child crying for a toy. If the toy is not provided for him, he cries and cries, and still nothing happens. The child stops crying and engages himself in other activities! He is not going go on crying. That is it. That is all.

When an immature can do it, why can't a matured you? DO IT MAN. Engage in other activities, and there it is. YOU FORGOT ABOUT HER. ALAS.

Hope this answers your query. Available for further clarifications.
Good luck.
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What Is The Treatment For Sadness?

Dear Welcome to HCM We understand your concerns I went through your details. I suggest you not to worry much. If she is happy that she ditched you, then why worry. You find another girl (light sense). You must understand that every person grieves the situation and almost every person came out of the situation (though sad for sometimes). Here you are sad, dissatisfied because something you wanted did not happen. Fine. Imagine a child crying for a toy. If the toy is not provided for him, he cries and cries, and still nothing happens. The child stops crying and engages himself in other activities! He is not going go on crying. That is it. That is all. When an immature can do it, why can t a matured you? DO IT MAN. Engage in other activities, and there it is. YOU FORGOT ABOUT HER. ALAS. Hope this answers your query. Available for further clarifications. Good luck.