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Why Do I Lose The Desire Suddenly While I'm Ready To Have Sex ?
hallo sir,
i am trapped in bizzare situation....i have friend ship with a lady since 2 years as she is my office mate we are much together,but the issue is that we never had sex.i had feelings for her but she didnt.i was attracted towords her usually,but never made up my mind to have sex with her, due to her family problems.
last week we decided to have sex. so it was my first time.but while having sex i lost my desire towords her,as i was not getting feeling for her and finaly i was fail to have sex with her.since age of 16 i am madtrubating, I am doing it twice a day, i am straght i have interst in women only.but i dont know what's going on with me. she is telling me that i am not capable of having sex.please help me out..some times i feel that i have to do sucide..please help me out......
i am trapped in bizzare situation....i have friend ship with a lady since 2 years as she is my office mate we are much together,but the issue is that we never had sex.i had feelings for her but she didnt.i was attracted towords her usually,but never made up my mind to have sex with her, due to her family problems.
last week we decided to have sex. so it was my first time.but while having sex i lost my desire towords her,as i was not getting feeling for her and finaly i was fail to have sex with her.since age of 16 i am madtrubating, I am doing it twice a day, i am straght i have interst in women only.but i dont know what's going on with me. she is telling me that i am not capable of having sex.please help me out..some times i feel that i have to do sucide..please help me out......
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Fri, 14 Mar 2014
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Hello
Thanks for query.
Failure to perform sex in initial stage of sexual life is common and it does happen with every individual .
Your problem of loss of libido (Sexual desire ) and Erectile Dysfunction is psychogenic in origin and needs counselling by a qualified Psychiatrist.
Please do remember that sex is not everything in life .
Consult qualified Psychiatrist for counselling and further medical treatment .
Do not worry this is not a serious issue that you should stake your life for.It is bound to get resolved with appropriate treatment .
Dr.Patil.
Thanks for query.
Failure to perform sex in initial stage of sexual life is common and it does happen with every individual .
Your problem of loss of libido (Sexual desire ) and Erectile Dysfunction is psychogenic in origin and needs counselling by a qualified Psychiatrist.
Please do remember that sex is not everything in life .
Consult qualified Psychiatrist for counselling and further medical treatment .
Do not worry this is not a serious issue that you should stake your life for.It is bound to get resolved with appropriate treatment .
Dr.Patil.
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