Hello, my husband and I are trying to conceive and I know we have to keep trying for at least a year but I just want to make sure we are doing it the right way. My question is this : everytime we have intercourse, right after, I always pee. i also wash my vagina with cold water, to remove the stickiness of the sperm which makes me uncomfortable. (I was the outside and a little on the inside with the tip of my finger) Do these 2 things minimize my chances of conceiving? (1) peeing (2) washing?