Hello, I can understand your concern. Entering the vagina by finger may or may not break the hymen depending on the depth the finger was put inside. If you had experienced some bleeding at that time, most probably, the hymen was broken at that time. However, many women do not have intact hymen since birth or they break it in childhood by sports or other injury. I would advise you to base whether you are virgin or not on the first sexual experience that you consented for and you liked and not on the basis of intact hymen. So yes, you are still a virgin, according to me. In addition, as you have reached puberty, it is very normal to feel sexual desires. There is nothing wrong about it. As you will age and have experiences, the urge will cease to be this stronger as you are feeling now. There is nothing abnormal in what you are feeling so you do not need any treatment. I am considering here that bed wetting means wetting the bed by vaginal discharge and not urination. If urinating in bed is the problem, then you should consult a urologist for the diagnosis and treatment. I hope this answer clears your doubts. Thank you for choosing HealthcareMagic. Let me know if I can be of any further assistance. Take care. Best, Dr. Viraj Shah