Yes Thank You. I'm 43 And Need A Hyster Due

Yes thank you. I'm 43 and need a hyster due to excessive bleeding from multiple fibroids. I am healthy otherwise and have no associated pain. I have had 3 opinions: 2 say remove everything and 1 says keep the ovaries. I am so confused because all that I read about adhesions causing bowel obstruction, painful intercourse, etc. The second choice leaves me with a whole leap of other issues so how does one choose? If I decide on a total hyster and surgically induced menopause begins will this mean I am in menopause longer?
Thank you for any guidance.
Kind Regards,
Lyn