Yes I Am A 60 Year Old Female That Has

yes i am a 60 year old female that has not been living at all. prior to my diagnosis of ch failure i was very active no real health problem. nothing i couldn't deal with. which over the past twenty years i found out that i inherited my fathers low blood presssure. so low sometimes i would pass out i f i got up too quick. i really don't know what i did to my back but there were days the pain was unbearable. i finally went to a chiropractor and was sent to a dr who diagnosed me with a herniated disk which i never did any thing about but sufer thru times of unbearable pain that put me in bedsometimes over the years i became incontinent and lost all control over my bladder i stayed home alot and wore depends about 5 years after that i lost control of my bowels so i started using glyserin suppossitories to make my self void when it was convenient for me. when i fell and broke my foot , my ankle and four of my toes i really had atime trying to go pottie.since then i can barely walk without tripping myself up and falling . i can't seem to pick up my foot because of my back, i can't wear pants because of my back pain so i wear dresses every day my hf rares it head every now and then causing me to swell i started having afib so now i have a defibralator inplant and instructions to take it easy the rest of my life if i want one. my question to you is i read that all of my problems are stemming from my back problem that i never did anything about . i never wanted to get on pain pills or do surgery but now i don't feel i have anything to look forward to because i can't do anything very muck without getting out of breath or falling over my own two feet i am still wanting to do the things i have always done my mind and soul says yes and my body says proceed with care and help i have a new problem that my stomach seems real bloated and my uretherfeels like it is stopped up or restricked if i rub it it may release some of it or not i feel like i am about to bust but when i go to the bathroom a smaall ammount comes out do i need to go see a urologist or who . i'm so fustrated with myself. to much maitenince.