Brief Answer:
Premature Ejaculation
Detailed Answer:
Hello
Thanks for the follow-up information.
The condition that you are suffering is called premature ejaculation. Now its a type of
anxiety disorder and the person normally suffers from performance anxiety where in he is anxious if he can perform or not.
The best part is with time this problem settles down on its own. With time and ones you are married and perform sex regularly in a legally and socially accepted relationship there are no doubts in the brain and that leads to proper sexual act.
As of now you can try the start stop technique. Your partner is supposed to start stimulating you and the moment you are about to ejaculated she is supposed to stop all the stimulaton and and hold your penis head hard.
Perineal exercises also help. These are the
muscle exercises that occur when you contract the perineal muscles like when you are trying to stop the urine or feces. You have to do this contrations repeatedly.
One short solution is medications. Some patients are not willing to wait for these acts to produce results and instead demand medicines. I prescribe them 12.5 mg
paroxetine at night and they are happy with the results. This needs to be continued for a few weeks regularly.
Regarding the size of the penis, there is no therapy to increase the size of the penis or its girth. But you need to understand the most stimulating part of the vegina is the
clitoris and the outer third of vagina. Hence even if your penis is 2 inches long on erection you can make your wife have satisfactory orgasms.
Regarding the
stiffness, ones the premature ejaculation needs to be changed and many times with the treatment of premature ejaculation,the symptoms of reduced erectile strength also improve.
Hope I am able to answer your concerns.
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Wish you good health,
Kind regards
Dr. Srikanth Reddy M.D.