
Dear Doctor, This Is XXXXXXX 33 Years Old, Divorced Man.

Question: Dear doctor,
This is XXXXXXX 33 years old, divorced man. I got divorced two years ago. During those two years I had sex 3 times with stranger girls .. None of those I did any intercourse at all vaginally nor anal.
I did the following on those 3 times..
Blow job with condom, hand job without condom, rubbing on her body( not vagina), kissing her body, foot job.
I never put my penis inside or even on the girl vagina nor licking or kissing her vagina. I even didn't do any open mouth kissing at all. I didn't do that because I was worried since that time and afraid from HIV so tried to protect myself as much as I can.
Last of those sex was about 6 months ago. I am healthy and don't have any problem.
The thing is always I am thinking that I might got AIDS. I know I may be over thinking or I could have HIV test, but it's little difficult to do such in my country.
For example. Few days ago l, I had itching without any kind of rash and I keep reading on websites that HIV is one of many causes for that. Or for example sometimes I have diarrhea without reason and I read also on web that HIV might one of hundreds of its causes.
Simply just keep thinking. I know it's not that easy to get HIV from what I had, but need to hear from a specialist also .
Thanks Dr.
This is XXXXXXX 33 years old, divorced man. I got divorced two years ago. During those two years I had sex 3 times with stranger girls .. None of those I did any intercourse at all vaginally nor anal.
I did the following on those 3 times..
Blow job with condom, hand job without condom, rubbing on her body( not vagina), kissing her body, foot job.
I never put my penis inside or even on the girl vagina nor licking or kissing her vagina. I even didn't do any open mouth kissing at all. I didn't do that because I was worried since that time and afraid from HIV so tried to protect myself as much as I can.
Last of those sex was about 6 months ago. I am healthy and don't have any problem.
The thing is always I am thinking that I might got AIDS. I know I may be over thinking or I could have HIV test, but it's little difficult to do such in my country.
For example. Few days ago l, I had itching without any kind of rash and I keep reading on websites that HIV is one of many causes for that. Or for example sometimes I have diarrhea without reason and I read also on web that HIV might one of hundreds of its causes.
Simply just keep thinking. I know it's not that easy to get HIV from what I had, but need to hear from a specialist also .
Thanks Dr.
Brief Answer:
No risk of HIV
Detailed Answer:
Hello and welcome to ask a doctor service. I have gone through your query and noted your concern.
None of those physical contacts that you mentioned pose any risk because protected oral sex is safe..Moreover you never had actual intercourse. Skin to skin contact doesn't pose any risk, whatsoever. HIV is only transmitted through either unprotected sex or through blood transfusion or from mother to child through placenta. You are safe.
Hope I have answered your query. Let me know if you need any more assistance.
No risk of HIV
Detailed Answer:
Hello and welcome to ask a doctor service. I have gone through your query and noted your concern.
None of those physical contacts that you mentioned pose any risk because protected oral sex is safe..Moreover you never had actual intercourse. Skin to skin contact doesn't pose any risk, whatsoever. HIV is only transmitted through either unprotected sex or through blood transfusion or from mother to child through placenta. You are safe.
Hope I have answered your query. Let me know if you need any more assistance.
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Dr. Vaishalee Punj

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