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How To Engage My Partner To A Good Sexual Experience?

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Posted on Fri, 26 Feb 2016
Question: Hello my question is regarding advices you can you give me to turn women on physically and emotionally before a sexual engagement and when engaging in it. For example when talking with a woman how should I act with her in order for her to really really want to have sexual intercourse with me - what should I do so it won't seem weird or out of place, how and when should I touch her, and when we are engaging in sex what's the best way to give her an orgasm and really pleasure her so it will be memorable and unique. Also I would like to know if there are proven tips to help me last more in sexual intercourse and any additonal general advice on how to 'spice things up' would be really appreciated - XXXX
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Answered by Dr. Dr.Saatiish Jhuntrraa (53 minutes later)
Brief Answer:
it is a slow learning curve how to have good sex

Detailed Answer:
Hi
Thanks for the query
Your query is some thing every male in the world wants to know. There is no fixed " turn on formula" to be followed. Every female in the world has different likes, dislikes, turn on and turn offs. But there are some general guidelines.
Every woman in the world needs to have faith and confidence in her possible future sex partner, you should be well behaved and sincere, honest and compassionate. These qualities might help you to attract some females. You should go steady for some time till she feels absolutely comfortable and pampered in your company. Then may be drop subtle hints or catch such hints and you may proceed for sex. You should proceed slowly, make sure she is not hurt mentally and physically. Touching her everywhere and cuddling is the best aphrodisiac . Engage in sex without worrying about orgasm as this stage comes at a later stage. Initially there will anxiety but indulge in foreplay and that will make both of you comfortable. You need to learn the art of love making with the passage of time, no one learn at one go
So first find a mate and initiate sex, then I can guide you further.
DR SAATIISH JHUNTRRAA

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How To Engage My Partner To A Good Sexual Experience?

Brief Answer: it is a slow learning curve how to have good sex Detailed Answer: Hi Thanks for the query Your query is some thing every male in the world wants to know. There is no fixed " turn on formula" to be followed. Every female in the world has different likes, dislikes, turn on and turn offs. But there are some general guidelines. Every woman in the world needs to have faith and confidence in her possible future sex partner, you should be well behaved and sincere, honest and compassionate. These qualities might help you to attract some females. You should go steady for some time till she feels absolutely comfortable and pampered in your company. Then may be drop subtle hints or catch such hints and you may proceed for sex. You should proceed slowly, make sure she is not hurt mentally and physically. Touching her everywhere and cuddling is the best aphrodisiac . Engage in sex without worrying about orgasm as this stage comes at a later stage. Initially there will anxiety but indulge in foreplay and that will make both of you comfortable. You need to learn the art of love making with the passage of time, no one learn at one go So first find a mate and initiate sex, then I can guide you further. DR SAATIISH JHUNTRRAA